Dirty Talk 101: Expert Tips and How to Make it Less Weird

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“Give your partner some examples of what you’d like to say or to hear, and perhaps even at what point you’d like that to happen during sex,” says Buehler. A little nervous laughter is fine, but sometimes, you might say something that triggers your partner. They might not have the language to tell you why it bothered them in the moment, but if you get the sense that you pushed things too far, definitely talk about it later. If you’re a newbie Lowrie advises thinking of it like flirting and foreplay. “You might tell them something you’d like them to do to you or that you’d like to do with them,” Lowrie advises.

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I’m ecstatic just thinking about your cock every day. I can’t imagine sharing you with anyone, you’re so freaking hot. I can’t stop thinking of what you did to me last night. Don’t throw out anything super vulgar unless tonally all signs point to that being a good idea, Block said, calling on personal experience to illustrate her point. “Talking dirty can help long-distance relationships as it allows for a physical connection which is otherwise a challenge when being distant,” explains Michaela Thomas, a clinical psychologist and author of The Lasting Connection.

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  • “There’s never a bad time to start talking dirty,” says Horn.
  • Dr. Jansen has come across such cases in her practice.
  • But it’s especially true when you’re establishing this more advanced style by adding layers of identity, specificity, and storytelling.
  • So if you’re ready to add some naughty phrases to your arousal arsenal, ahead, sex experts explain exactly how to talk dirty and offer some scripts to get you started.

Between the sheets: Investigating young adults’ communication during sexual activity

What dirty talk isn’t is some mysterious language. While it might seem like something straight out of erotic literature or a steamy movie scene, it’s useful for elevating communication in the bedroom. These are just a small sample of dirty things that you can say to your guy to turn him and make sex a lot hotter for the both of you. If you are interested in learning more, then I strongly suggest you use the techniques I teach in this dirty talking instructional video.

Remember to stay in tune with what your spouse likes and is comfortable with. Sometimes, a spicy photo with no context can be a delightful surprise, but sometimes it can be jarring if the receiver is not in the mood yet. Make a concentrated effort to flirt with your spouse, even when you aren’t physically together. Don’t underestimate how powerful it is to know your spouse is thinking about you (and thinking how sexy you are) even when you aren’t around.

Dirty talk is a liberating experience for women to break down this mindset and become comfortable in their sexuality and desires. A study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships found the more comfortable we are talking about sex, the more satisfactory our sex lives will become. According to the researchers, even the slightest anxiety about communication affected whether partners were communicating or not.

Additionally, love talk is more sexual in nature than pillow talk and tends to occur preceding or during rather than following lovemaking. Once you’re fully feeling it, don’t be afraid to let your partner know what you want. Take control by giving them instructions on exactly what feels good for you. “Dirty talk doesn’t have to be raunchy, but it can if you want it to be! Ease into dirty talk with small, sensual compliments. Tell your partner how much you love certain things they do.

First and foremost, try to get all your preconceived notions about dirty talk — how it’s”supposed” to sound or what you’re “supposed” to say — out of your head. Your biggest overall obstacle is simply getting out of your own head about it. For dirty talk to be successful, it has to be tit for tat. Both people should do it so there’s no sort of animosity or resentment or power struggle.

  • I’ll get into specific phrases you can use momentarily, but first, some guidelines to help you get your black belt from the dirty talk dojo.
  • Finally, it keeps you man thinking about you when you’re not around.
  • An “mmm,” “oh baby,” or similar moan-inspired sound will encourage your partner to continue what they’re saying or doing.
  • Tell your partner how much you love certain things they do.

You can do it with a long-term lover or a one-night stand. You can talk dirty via text message, phone call, or FaceTime. You can do it before sex as foreplay or post-sex as aftercare.

“It’s never a bad idea to incorporate more erotic language and communication into your sex life, especially now.” However, rendering a partner uncomfortable via dirty talk isn’t the end of the world. There are plenty of lists online there with sexy phrases you can use during sex to up the dirty talk.

Remember that the same “lines” don’t work on everyone. For example, calling your last partner “Daddy” might have made him instantly hard, but your new beau might think of it as boner kryptonite. So, don’t be afraid to adapt and evolve your sexy talk to fit your current partner. Another excellent source of ideas is returning to a time in the past when you and your partner had a particularly sexy encounter. Retracing history, so to speak, and adding embellishments where you see fit, can be just as hot as other kinds of dirty talk. If literature and audio aren’t your thing, you can also simply turn to your favorite movies or TV shows for inspiration.

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